2.12.2007

Work on your power of attraction: Self-confidence

Charisma is with no doubt an essencial tool to be succesful. But it is said that charisma is something mystic, that few people are born with.
Does it mean you are condemned to be an average person & that you will never be noticed when you enter a room full of people? No.
Let me reassure you. You can work on increasing your power of attraction. You can get everything you want by using the infinite potential of your mind & easy rules to follow.

You can't make people be attracted to you if you don't love yourself & feel confident about yourself, first. Having a strong self-confidence is crucial not only for your professional life, but also for your personal life.
Self-confidence allows you to accept failure & learn from it.
Self-confidence helps you move on without paying attention to destructive critics.
You can't step forward if you can't believe in your own potential or if you constantly wait for the approval of someone, before doing anything.

Keep in mind that there is nothing humanly possible that you cannot do.
I want you to take a dictionnary, look for the word 'impossible' & rip the page off. This word should be banned from your vocabulary. There is nothing you cannot do if you want to do it.
Never let anybody tell you 'you can't make it.'
Only people who can't achieve something by themselves try to drag those who have the will to make their dream come true down.

Dare to take risks & don't be afraid to compliment yourself if necessary.
You should also be able to be honest with yourself to be able to experience improvement.

Do an introspection & see what is wrong with you to start. Then work on improving yourself.

My next post will deal with how to read people like open book. Don't miss it :)

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