Do you think people can trust you? Can anybody rely on you? Because this is what integrity is about.
For people to respect you and admire you, they have to trust you & feel that they are safe with you.
You can't provide false information to people trusting you, you can't lie & you can't use them either.
However, you can choose to appear as someoe with integrity while you are not. Businessmen for instance usually think integrity can't always be effective. Make sure your game is slick enough not to be noticed if you're planning to misleading you partners . I'm sure you wouldn't like to be caught in the middle of a lie, because it could destroy your credibility & the reputation you took so long to build.
Showing posts with label power of attraction. Show all posts
Showing posts with label power of attraction. Show all posts
3.12.2007
Work on your power of attraction: Creativity
It took me a moment to put that article together, because I was not inspired at all for weeks. I still don't know how to put it together. I guess, if I keep writing I will end up finding the right words.
& this is supposed to be about creativity. I'm a very creative person. I may not always express it, but I know I am! (yeah right! you're struggling to put one article together. come on now!) I know that's what you are thinking.
Well, how would you define creativity? Is it about drawing beautiful things or writing incredible stories? I used to do that a lot when I was in high-school. When I got bored I would just start drawing on the table. Then of course, when I was caught I had to come on saturday morning to clean all the tables of the classroom. My mother never found out about my advisor-order community services because I had the good explanation for getting up early few saturdays per month.
I can't lie, but I could make you believe whatever I want, if my life depended on it. It's a survival reflex.
My definition of creativity is the ability to find a solution to any kind of problem very quickly or the ability to visualize things in 3D in your mind easily.
You are creative. Don't think that just because your entourage is not complimenting you on the things you call painting that you are not creative.
Creativity is within all of us. All you have to do to experience this creativity is to think more often out of the box. Look for answers where nobody goes. Think theorically & be playful. Be unique, be a child, be curious!
Think about it. People are always seduced by playful minds. If you are creative enough, your entourage will always expect unpredictable ideas from you. They will enjoy your discussions, because you have a different way of interpreting events.
I have to work on everything but creativity to become magnetic. I enjoy seeing the reaction of people when they just meet me & I love hearing that I am different from most of the girls of my age.
You too, work on becoming unique & creative. Don't be afraid to be a child sometimes.
You can excercise yourself by finding explanations to current events. Forget about everything the medias are saying & find your own explanation.
Have fun :)
& this is supposed to be about creativity. I'm a very creative person. I may not always express it, but I know I am! (yeah right! you're struggling to put one article together. come on now!) I know that's what you are thinking.
Well, how would you define creativity? Is it about drawing beautiful things or writing incredible stories? I used to do that a lot when I was in high-school. When I got bored I would just start drawing on the table. Then of course, when I was caught I had to come on saturday morning to clean all the tables of the classroom. My mother never found out about my advisor-order community services because I had the good explanation for getting up early few saturdays per month.
I can't lie, but I could make you believe whatever I want, if my life depended on it. It's a survival reflex.
My definition of creativity is the ability to find a solution to any kind of problem very quickly or the ability to visualize things in 3D in your mind easily.
You are creative. Don't think that just because your entourage is not complimenting you on the things you call painting that you are not creative.
Creativity is within all of us. All you have to do to experience this creativity is to think more often out of the box. Look for answers where nobody goes. Think theorically & be playful. Be unique, be a child, be curious!
Think about it. People are always seduced by playful minds. If you are creative enough, your entourage will always expect unpredictable ideas from you. They will enjoy your discussions, because you have a different way of interpreting events.
I have to work on everything but creativity to become magnetic. I enjoy seeing the reaction of people when they just meet me & I love hearing that I am different from most of the girls of my age.
You too, work on becoming unique & creative. Don't be afraid to be a child sometimes.
You can excercise yourself by finding explanations to current events. Forget about everything the medias are saying & find your own explanation.
Have fun :)
2.17.2007
Work on your power of attraction: sense of humor
What's Humor Anyway?
Humor is what makes something funny; a sense of humor is the ability to recognize it. Someone with a well-developed sense of humor has the ability to recognize what's funny in others and can amuse others as well.
Sense of humor can help you:
Humor is what makes something funny; a sense of humor is the ability to recognize it. Someone with a well-developed sense of humor has the ability to recognize what's funny in others and can amuse others as well.
Sense of humor can help you:
- see things from many perspectives other than the most obvious
- be spontaneous
- grasp unconventional ideas or ways of thinking
- see beyond the surface of things
- enjoy and participate in the playful aspects of life
- not take yourself too seriously
Don't think that because you want to be someone important & influent, you have to be always serious & impress people by appearing as someone cold and condescending.
Being an easy-going person is essencial, because it helps people feel comfortable even in the most tense situations. Don't hesitate using your sense of humor. You should even be able to laugh at yourself without giving the impression to be a complete fool. It's a way to show that you are self-confident & that you can take any joke.
Don't be afraid to be funny, but don't abuse of your sense of humor. Avoid corny jokes. Please no racist, sexist, sexual joke. People might not take you seriously. Worst, they might find you boring & avoid you.
Another thing to avoid is to become too familiar with people. Being funny, doesn't mean sharing your personal informations. Don't forget your ultimate goal is to create professional links & establish a strong reputation. I will come back on this point in another post. But keep in mind that less people know about you & better it is.
Just make sure people smile when they are around you.
2.12.2007
Work on your power of attraction: Self-confidence
Charisma is with no doubt an essencial tool to be succesful. But it is said that charisma is something mystic, that few people are born with.
Does it mean you are condemned to be an average person & that you will never be noticed when you enter a room full of people? No.
Let me reassure you. You can work on increasing your power of attraction. You can get everything you want by using the infinite potential of your mind & easy rules to follow.
You can't make people be attracted to you if you don't love yourself & feel confident about yourself, first. Having a strong self-confidence is crucial not only for your professional life, but also for your personal life.
Self-confidence allows you to accept failure & learn from it.
Self-confidence helps you move on without paying attention to destructive critics.
You can't step forward if you can't believe in your own potential or if you constantly wait for the approval of someone, before doing anything.
Keep in mind that there is nothing humanly possible that you cannot do.
I want you to take a dictionnary, look for the word 'impossible' & rip the page off. This word should be banned from your vocabulary. There is nothing you cannot do if you want to do it.
Never let anybody tell you 'you can't make it.'
Only people who can't achieve something by themselves try to drag those who have the will to make their dream come true down.
Dare to take risks & don't be afraid to compliment yourself if necessary.
You should also be able to be honest with yourself to be able to experience improvement.
Do an introspection & see what is wrong with you to start. Then work on improving yourself.
My next post will deal with how to read people like open book. Don't miss it :)
Does it mean you are condemned to be an average person & that you will never be noticed when you enter a room full of people? No.
Let me reassure you. You can work on increasing your power of attraction. You can get everything you want by using the infinite potential of your mind & easy rules to follow.
You can't make people be attracted to you if you don't love yourself & feel confident about yourself, first. Having a strong self-confidence is crucial not only for your professional life, but also for your personal life.
Self-confidence allows you to accept failure & learn from it.
Self-confidence helps you move on without paying attention to destructive critics.
You can't step forward if you can't believe in your own potential or if you constantly wait for the approval of someone, before doing anything.
Keep in mind that there is nothing humanly possible that you cannot do.
I want you to take a dictionnary, look for the word 'impossible' & rip the page off. This word should be banned from your vocabulary. There is nothing you cannot do if you want to do it.
Never let anybody tell you 'you can't make it.'
Only people who can't achieve something by themselves try to drag those who have the will to make their dream come true down.
Dare to take risks & don't be afraid to compliment yourself if necessary.
You should also be able to be honest with yourself to be able to experience improvement.
Do an introspection & see what is wrong with you to start. Then work on improving yourself.
My next post will deal with how to read people like open book. Don't miss it :)
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